Valerie Bertinelli is embracing the milestone of two years of independence following her divorce from Tom Vitale, expressing in a recent social media post that the journey has been transformative. The 64-year-old television personality, best known for her work on the Food Network, shared encouraging words with her followers, affirming that life indeed improves over time.
In her heartfelt message, Bertinelli reflected on the challenges she faced during her marriage, stating, “I didn’t know how I was going to get through it, but I knew that somehow I would.” She marked the occasion by acknowledging the struggles she overcame, from self-doubt to the realization that she shouldn’t have to endure intolerable situations.
Having officially divorced Vitale in November 2022, Bertinelli discussed her path to self-discovery over the past two years, stating, “Two years of working through shame and self-loathing…and working to find my true self.” She expressed gratitude for her recent relationship with Mike Goodnough, from whom she recently parted ways after 10 months, crediting him with helping her rediscover love.
In reflecting on her current phase of life, Bertinelli characterized it as her “last” and emphasized the importance of self-love and acceptance, noting that recognizing both her strengths and flaws is crucial to fostering healthy relationships with others. “You must give it to yourself first so that you can share it,” she remarked, recognizing the ongoing nature of her personal growth.
Bertinelli offered comfort to those facing hardships, assuring them that better days lie ahead. “Some days will still be hard and challenging, but on other days, the light will shine brighter and you will feel it,” she wrote, reinforcing her message of hope and resilience.
Her journey also includes the remembrance of her first husband, the legendary Eddie Van Halen, who passed away in 2020, leaving behind cherished memories and their son, Wolfgang, 33. Bertinelli and Vitale’s relationship began in 2004, leading to their marriage in January 2011 after a lengthy engagement. However, after a decade together, she sought legal separation in November 2021, ultimately leading to her declaration of being “happily divorced.”
As she continues to navigate this chapter of her life, Bertinelli remains open about her struggles and triumphs, inspiring others to pursue their paths of healing and self-acceptance.
