Jennifer Lopez Opens Up on Struggles with Relationships Amid Ben Affleck Divorce
In a revealing interview, Jennifer Lopez delves into the theme of challenging relationships, drawing parallels with her character in the film “Unstoppable.” This candid discussion comes during her ongoing divorce from Ben Affleck, her fourth husband. Speaking with Variety, Lopez described her connection with her character, Judy Robles, noting, “We were kindred spirits.” Both women share similar backgrounds as Latinas in America, as well as the journey of motherhood filled with hopes and dreams, each facing their own trials that required them to hold their families together.
Lopez, now 55, reflected on the strength women cultivate from the moment they are born, stating, “From the minute women are born, we’re always having to prove ourselves, to show we’re good enough. That creates a type of strength.” The singer and actress highlighted that the experience of giving birth adds to that strength. Although she maintained her focus on the character’s journey, Lopez is acutely aware of her own challenging relationships, particularly as she navigates her current separation from Affleck.
The couple initially sparked breakup speculation in May 2024, three months before Lopez officially filed for divorce in August. Despite the end of their two-year marriage, they have managed to remain amicable. Reports indicate that the former couple intends to stay connected, especially for the sake of their blended families.
Lopez even spent Christmas with her children in Aspen, Colorado, while Affleck celebrated the holiday with his ex-wife, Jennifer Garner, and their three children. Despite their separate celebrations, Lopez and Affleck exchanged Christmas gifts, primarily for each other’s kids, indicating a desire to keep the familial ties intact.
A source close to the situation shared that their communication remains open when it comes to their children, underscoring their commitment to co-parenting despite no longer being romantically involved. Lopez’s past relationships include engagements to Alex Rodriguez and marriages to Ojani Noa, Cris Judd, and Marc Anthony, the father of her twins, Max and Emme.
As the new year unfolds, it seems both Lopez and Affleck are focused on maintaining a positive relationship, ensuring that they remain an integral part of each other’s lives as they move forward separately.